Friday, March 05, 2010

jeers to foster's market

Monday, February 15, 2010

at the farm

there is one place
i would rather be
another place than here
a place where race
has no face
another place
to be queer

Sunday, January 31, 2010

computer cocktail

hari g sent me this drawing and i added the mac logo and ribbon :)

but that is me at the computer with a glass of wine.

Saturday, January 30, 2010

who dat on eiffel?

Sunday, January 03, 2010

it's cold

yoga boys

this is an amazing video i found surfing the web.

http://www.vimeo.com/8099151



this video below is a mmp edit of the above link:

Fire at a neighbor's house

Durham Herald: article

WTVD news: video

the end of beggars and choosers?

yesterday we read this article in the n&o. we quickly decided to hit the road from durham and visit the store in pittsboro for possibly the last time. this was the source of gifts for our 1st christmas together 18 years ago.

here is a link to the original article in the n&o.


below is the text from the article.


Merchant hit where it hurts - Local/State - NewsObserver.com

PITTSBORO -- Whoever burglarized Beggars and Choosers, one of Pittsboro's oldest merchants, snatched only the most precious items as they prowled the downtown shop in October.

They made off with the cash and the gold, silver and Victorian-era jewelry - and they took store owner Pam Smith's joy.

Of all she lost in the theft, it's her bliss she misses most. Seems she can't run the store without it.

"It's not the stuff and it's not the money," Smith says. "It's what it did to my spirit."

She'll be closing after a clearance sale today.

For 30 years, Smith's three-floored emporium on a corner across from the old courthouse served customers with an eye for the eclectic. Like the storekeeper herself, it all belonged to a different era: the vintage clothing, the chenille bedspreads, the antique furniture.

Beggars and Choosers began in another small Chatham County community, nearby Goldston, when Smith's husband, bluegrass bassist Thomas "Snuffy" Smith, suggested she put her "junk magnet" tendencies to good use.

After a couple of years, she began to think her 1940s women's suits and couture clothing from the '50s and '60s would sell better closer to the Triangle's colleges. But she wanted to raise her two young boys in a small town. Pittsboro, which still has only about 2,500 people, seemed perfect.

She bought the 1890s brick building, thinking she would never fill it.

The town embraced her.

"I went in there about once a week," says Chris Pratt, who has lived in Pittsboro for a decade. He bought Virlie's Grill, two doors down Hillsboro Street from Smith's store, a couple of years ago.

"I never knew what I was looking for when I went in," Pratt says of the Christmas decorations and old carrom boards that now hang in his restaurant.

The business grew as Smith bought whole estates, picking out the most desirable items and giving others to area thrift shops. As her collection of Depression-era clothing and accessories expanded, costumers for stage and film began to visit. She helped outfit "Bull Durham" and "Patch Adams."

Even in Chatham County, known for its artists and specialty farms, Smith says she's an eccentric. The daughter of a preacher, she has the residual accent of her coastal upbringing and a voice powerful enough for a pulpit - or a community theater stage, where she has spent a lot of time.

Her front display windows are a bit of drama, too, with Smith's mannequins in story-telling vignettes. One features a female form in a dog mask who appears to be holding class for a half-dozen canine figurines.

For the past five years, Smith has offered a special deal for clothing shoppers. Working from the stash in the basement, they could build an ensemble for free, but they had to wear every piece of it out of the store as they left.

"It livened up the town," Smith says, describing some of the mismatched combinations she sent into the streets.

Hidden in the store?

On special occasions, she wore costumes to work.

She was in she-devil garb for the Pittsboro Street Fair the weekend before Halloween, when the burglary happened. She spent much of the day outside, visiting, while employees ran the store and closed up that night.

About 45 minutes after closing, Smith went back to finish up.

She noticed the cash drawer was empty, but thought it was because it had been a busy day. Then she realized all the folding money was gone, too. She went upstairs and saw the jewelry cases had been picked clean.

The entire haul could have been taken out in one of the vintage pillowcases from the store's textile collection.

"We think maybe they hid in the store," Smith says, "and came out after it closed."

It wouldn't have been that hard, her husband suggests. "To hide in here, all you have to do is stand still."

When the police came, Smith was still in her sexy red-sequined devil dress, horns and crimson lipstick.

Looking forward

She reopened after the burglary and came to work as she always had, smiling, sporting a pair of striped Wicked Witch socks or some other bit of colorful attire.

She greeted her customers, helped them when they needed it.

"But whenever someone came in that I didn't know, I couldn't help but wonder, 'Could that be them? Could they have done it?'" Smith says.

The store - a source of income but also a social outlet for Smith, who gets to know people as they shop for a decades-old prom dress or a military jacket -had been tainted.

"I decided I had to close it," she says.

She's having a one-day sale from 10:30 a.m. to 6 p.m. today to clear out the merchandise and, she hopes, the specter of loss. Everything will be 50 to 75 percent off.

At 62, Smith says she's not ready to retire, but not sure what she wants to do.

If the shop comes back, she says, it will be different from before.

"I have to make it my own again."

Additional coverage:

The Independent Weekly - http://tinyurl.com/yktuhur


Saturday, January 02, 2010

to live off the grid

I wonder if I could live off the grid. It seems to be doable because I do not have a lot to give up to do so. Then, I could allow myself to be attached and try to convince myself there is a lot I would give up from possessions and other material items.

Quite unlike this couple (in the article below) who has figured out a way to keep the broadband internet access. I would need the broadband too.

NY Times article "Broadband, Yes. Toilet, No"

tmo

..

Thursday, December 31, 2009

start something now

a new year wish
to be the dish
like a fish
not

a new year tale
to win the sale
like a gay male
not

a new year goal
to take a whole
lot of shit
not

since dick cheney
did not
we shall
be Sweeney
like a wienie

Friday, October 16, 2009

so cold: a poem by me

made in u.s.a. dump no waste
catacomb kodachrome
in the heat on the farm
be here now or later
ice so cold, pants fall

mm

Saturday, October 10, 2009

Sunday, September 27, 2009

been there, right?

it is interesting why this opposition exists. one would have to have some gay experience to hold a sign like that. it is like coming out of a tortured closet, ok.

found seattle post card

i wonder where these guys are now. smile boys


Saturday, September 26, 2009

do you know these people?

polaroid found on the street in amsterdam, nl

Sunday, September 20, 2009

zeitgeist, the movie

Sunday, August 16, 2009

Thursday, August 06, 2009

a wall at work

 
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Sunday, August 02, 2009

soon to be the tourist (3 weeks to go)

see travel videos for paris and amsterdam here:

http://www.touristattractions.tv/

Saturday, July 25, 2009

paris is burning

when hari g and hari j arrive and find that they have returned to a place of origin, paris burns with excitement and grace.